Brian from US writes on how to convince your wife to have sex with another man. I have posted some general points in this matter. This is based on my three-some sex with couples.
I must warn that it is a indeed generalisation, not to be taken too seriously.. there may be other types, this is my observation based on many couples I have met , it can be used to gauge where you stand and make necessary changes .
If you see the couples who play to gether you can split them into 5 groups. Before convincing your wife, see which group you both belong to.
1) The worst kind : Wife hates the hubby, she has no love for him, she thinks he is a moron, so why not enjoy some fun with another man or even better, she will meet some one better and can hook up with him and ditch this moron. If you are the 3rd player, then be careful, She might manipulate you and make you do things outsside the bedroom that you will regret. Also their marriage is heading the wrong way, dont be around when the shit hits the ceiling.
1a) In almost the same category but wife refuses to go for threesome, hubby not a moron but he has not put at her ease, no equality or some pending issue. she fancies the idea but even if she fancies the idea of getting an extra cock. She sees how much the hubby wants it and decides to deny it to him as a way of punishing him for whatever he has done in her life. You can see this even for noraml sex, if she hates him and understands that he needs it badly, then she will not give him sex . If you are the hubby in such a scenario, its better that you do some genuine soul searching and make some changes in the way you deal with her. Thats not guarantee that she will sleep with another guy but things will improve.
2) She has no say in it, he just forces her to everything in life. There are many such morons, she just obeys him as she is scared of him. I know a husband who once said that he helps her parents and siblings etc, ssi she cant say not to him, if she says no to him for 3 or 4 some, then he will stop the support. This is even worse ,If you are the 3rd male in the room, its better to run away from such a scene.
3) He is not looking at her satisfaction or fun, he needs to have a woman, only way to get that in this game is to go as couples. He is possessive about any man even touching her but he is willing to let her be used as a bait so he can get a decent housewife to fuck. Later on he may accuse of her of this and that, she is aware of the danger but is willing to risk as she enjoys sex and wants to try it too or may be he has been relentless in his (soft or hard pressure , it varies)pressure tactics. No harm in such a scene. Its all selfish , anyway you are not there as their well wisher, You need a fuck too as much as the next man or .....errr ......woman.
4) He has managed to put her at ease, she trusts him absoluetly, he has not been judgemental about her , he never criicises her, he has removed all her insecurities about her body shape/size etc and any guilt aspect, she knows that she has say in all matters (not only with regard to sex and 3some but in all matters in their life)and she knows she is equal. There is no fear of him suspecting her or harbouring negative feelings towards her after 3some or 4some etc.Its a good scene to play.
5) They are in love with each other, perfect sync, great sex life, they are more like 2 friends, having an adventure.She can sense what he thinks and vice versa. They will never get entangled anywhere else. Its more like 2 teen age boys having sex with a girl in college dorm as there isnt an extra room. This would also be fun couple , only problem is you will feel like a dildo, being used and you can be sure that after you leave the room, they will joke about you and laugh at things you said or did, he may even mimic you and she will roar with laughter. Well what the heck, you got to fuck his wife and its a small price to pay.
Please see what sort of an equation you have with your wife, if she is not willing , then it must be because of any of the above, telling her """ what all i have done for you (read out the list, necklace, car, holiday.... one joker even told his wife that he is paying childrens school fees, clother etc), all i ask is to sleep with a man, just once, you are ungreatful etc """" wont help. First earn her trust, if you have not done it so far, it may take a while. dont underestimate her intelligence by being nice only weeks before you start pestering her for it. Let it be a long process, first become her friend, only 2 good friend can play this game, not married couples.
I must warn that it is a indeed generalisation, not to be taken too seriously.. there may be other types, this is my observation based on many couples I have met , it can be used to gauge where you stand and make necessary changes .
If you see the couples who play to gether you can split them into 5 groups. Before convincing your wife, see which group you both belong to.
1) The worst kind : Wife hates the hubby, she has no love for him, she thinks he is a moron, so why not enjoy some fun with another man or even better, she will meet some one better and can hook up with him and ditch this moron. If you are the 3rd player, then be careful, She might manipulate you and make you do things outsside the bedroom that you will regret. Also their marriage is heading the wrong way, dont be around when the shit hits the ceiling.
1a) In almost the same category but wife refuses to go for threesome, hubby not a moron but he has not put at her ease, no equality or some pending issue. she fancies the idea but even if she fancies the idea of getting an extra cock. She sees how much the hubby wants it and decides to deny it to him as a way of punishing him for whatever he has done in her life. You can see this even for noraml sex, if she hates him and understands that he needs it badly, then she will not give him sex . If you are the hubby in such a scenario, its better that you do some genuine soul searching and make some changes in the way you deal with her. Thats not guarantee that she will sleep with another guy but things will improve.
2) She has no say in it, he just forces her to everything in life. There are many such morons, she just obeys him as she is scared of him. I know a husband who once said that he helps her parents and siblings etc, ssi she cant say not to him, if she says no to him for 3 or 4 some, then he will stop the support. This is even worse ,If you are the 3rd male in the room, its better to run away from such a scene.
3) He is not looking at her satisfaction or fun, he needs to have a woman, only way to get that in this game is to go as couples. He is possessive about any man even touching her but he is willing to let her be used as a bait so he can get a decent housewife to fuck. Later on he may accuse of her of this and that, she is aware of the danger but is willing to risk as she enjoys sex and wants to try it too or may be he has been relentless in his (soft or hard pressure , it varies)pressure tactics. No harm in such a scene. Its all selfish , anyway you are not there as their well wisher, You need a fuck too as much as the next man or .....errr ......woman.
4) He has managed to put her at ease, she trusts him absoluetly, he has not been judgemental about her , he never criicises her, he has removed all her insecurities about her body shape/size etc and any guilt aspect, she knows that she has say in all matters (not only with regard to sex and 3some but in all matters in their life)and she knows she is equal. There is no fear of him suspecting her or harbouring negative feelings towards her after 3some or 4some etc.Its a good scene to play.
5) They are in love with each other, perfect sync, great sex life, they are more like 2 friends, having an adventure.She can sense what he thinks and vice versa. They will never get entangled anywhere else. Its more like 2 teen age boys having sex with a girl in college dorm as there isnt an extra room. This would also be fun couple , only problem is you will feel like a dildo, being used and you can be sure that after you leave the room, they will joke about you and laugh at things you said or did, he may even mimic you and she will roar with laughter. Well what the heck, you got to fuck his wife and its a small price to pay.
Please see what sort of an equation you have with your wife, if she is not willing , then it must be because of any of the above, telling her """ what all i have done for you (read out the list, necklace, car, holiday.... one joker even told his wife that he is paying childrens school fees, clother etc), all i ask is to sleep with a man, just once, you are ungreatful etc """" wont help. First earn her trust, if you have not done it so far, it may take a while. dont underestimate her intelligence by being nice only weeks before you start pestering her for it. Let it be a long process, first become her friend, only 2 good friend can play this game, not married couples.
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